Well, well, well...

...We have a nasty comment:

I think we used to have a name for girls like you and it was whores.

My, my, my. Aren't you the creative type? Personally, if I want to offend someone, I put some thought into it. This wasn't even accurate. First of all, as anyone can plainly tell, I am not a "girl". Secondly, according to Webster’s Dictionary, a whore is:

1. a woman who engages in sexual acts for money.

or

2. a promiscuous or immoral woman.

Well, either way, I don’t qualify. But, even if I were a whore, I would be more welcome at a party than a miserable jealous person such as yourself. Save yourself some time and insult somebody else...it has never bothered me what people such as yourselves think. Furthermore, it WOULD never bother me what people think when it is obvious that they are clueless. So, you can comment negatively all that you want, it tells everyone more about you than it ever could about me. When I get so many positive and sweet comments from people who actually READ the blog, the occasional freak certainly wouldn’t phase me in the least. Actually, it’s more of a benefit because it is fodder for thought. So, thank you. But I must add one thing. As Judge Judy would say, you madam, are an idiot.

Anyway, I was thinking about it and I decided that one of the following is a pretty good description of the person who wrote this. Anonymously, which in itself, always HAS to be taken into consideration when one is making allegations against another. So, which of the following do you suspect? Or do you have a different slant on it?

1. A female who sleeps with married men. Alone because her dude du jour is with his wife or his other girlfriend, she is a little bit angry. She has probably spent a good deal of time alone and has therefore built up some degree of bitterness. That bitterness leads her to feel as though she must attempt to degrade other people in order to feel better about herself. This is a common occurrence in her life, these attempts to degrade others. She does it verbally or in her mind, but she does it often. It is a symptom of the lack of control that she experiences in her everyday life. The perverted amusement that she derives from this endeavor is about all she feels as though she is capable of controlling. Others find her to be a very manipulative person and tend not to trust her. Her primitive male counterpart would be a bully who sucker punched one armed quadriplegics who were wearing glasses. But every time it happens, the one armed quadriplegic with glasses ends up decking the fool. Whether or not she is Vex’s current squeeze is of no consequence, this description is still very accurate of the seedy female to which I refer.

2. A man who is cheating/has cheated on his wife and read something that I wrote which particularly struck a nerve. Miserable with his own life, he spends countless hours on the web, but not like most people. He has a hotmail account which is a secret to all save his horny web contacts. His wife could be lying right there in the next room, taking a nap on the couch. And...if only he’d ask, she would be ready, willing and waiting to make love to him. But this cretin would be sitting there, alone in the kitchen, looking at naked women that he doesn’t know and simply by sheer numbers of interactions alone...he would eventually end up meeting one of them. As a result, life as he knew it would be over and he is now in his new life but yet there he is, right back at the computer. Bitter at his lot in life, he strikes out when he can. Uneducated, he chooses the worst thing that you can say about a woman...it's very cheap and easy. It takes a very simple mind to choose "whore" as an insult. This man has a very low opinion of women in general and says things like, "She deserved it." when a woman on television gets raped while wearing sexy clothes. It also takes an extraordinarily mean person. Bitter, uneducated, mean, simpleton males tend to be violent towards women on some level...even if it is just verbally. The female counterpart would be a woman who would sit at the courthouse every Monday, pleased that rather than pay her the $25 he owes in alinmony every week, her ex-husband, who SHE cheated on, was late. This gives her an opportunity to take him to court and she wants/needs to do that more than she wants/needs the $25. This type of personality CAN cause harm because they love to transfer their misery onto other people.

3. Just your ordinary nut case. This person calls themselves a Christian but they are the kind that makes you ashamed of the word. They are exceedingly judgmental and are most likely a bigot. They go out of their way to find people to look down upon and actively seek out confrontation. Their spouse is cheating on them and they refuse to see it. They CHOOSE to think that their family is somewhat decent when in actuality, their kids are totally out of control. They most likely have cockroaches and choose not to call Orkin, preferring instead to sprinkle boric acid all around the baseboards of their home, ignoring the fact that it is poisonous to children. They enjoy ruining holidays, mostly because it gets them out of helping with the clean up. Not terribly bright, they do things like start a car and put it in gear after they changed the break fluid but forgot to bleed the brakes so that they had none and then went brake-less backwards, crossing a street, tearing down a 6 foot wooden fence and the 4 foot metal fence that was behind the wooden fence and then filing the 6 hundred dollar repair job with the insurance company to save $100 (after paying the $500 deductible). They pretty much live in a fantasy world and refuse to see reality, no matter how many times it smacks them in the face. Their lack of attention to reality and refusal to listen to friends has, for the most part, pushed away every friend and loved one that they have ever had. Everybody got so sick of hearing them whine about the same things over and over again they left a long time ago. So, they are alone emotionally. This has led to bitterness and the need to lash out. Ordinarily harmless because of their cowardess, you have to watch these types because at times they snap and take hostages. Male or female doesn’t play a part in this description, either sex can have your ordinary nutcase.

Notice that bitterness is a common thread here. That is because whoever wrote this is obviously bitter, that’s pretty much a given when you have such mean and nasty, yet pedestrian, insults. So, which description do you think accurately portrays the author of this comment?

Anyway, I have a guest coming for dinner and he is bringing his tool box...I have to go have some fun...it's too bad that some people can’t seem to find a way to have some fun and prefer to spend their time actively pursuing things that make them feel and act so negatively. I will never understand the, “It offends me...yet I cannot look away.” mentality.

Whatever.

Ya'll have a good evening!!!

Meg