It’s the middle of the night...
...and I have been tossing and turning. I gave up trying to fall asleep and after listening to some dumb TV show where a bunch of women sit in a house and try to “heal” each other...I became annoyed. Annoying things are not conducive to sleep so I gave up and came out to play on the computer.
I took a xanax and made a decision. Since most of my worries are financial, I decided that I should stop waiting for Vex to come to his senses and send the alimony and just go ahead and file charges for contempt. I’ll be taking all of the print outs of the comments that he and his girlfriend sent to this blog (including the ones that were threatening to my father) and the IP’s from which they were sent. I have waited patiently but that has done no good whatsoever so I have no choice.
Since he is over 30 days behind, I don’t think anyone can accuse be of being unreasonable...this was his idea after all.
By the way, there was a comment that asked me to guess who it was from and I haven’t forgotten, I am just trying to figure it out. I had a couple of guesses, but I want to be sure so I am still on that.
Oh, man, the birds are chirping, I hate being up when the birds are chirping...that means that there’s no way that I can get even a half night’s sleep.
OK, so I will just go ahead and try to accomplish something so here:
I prefer not to discuss my dating problems with my inner circle until I've got something to show for it... is that childish?
Nope. That’s smart. You are actually doing the right thing by asking here because you’ll get a variety of non-biased answers. And inner circle members always feel the need to chat with others in THIER inner circle which may include people with whom you would rather not share your business. And they tell 2 people and so on and so on...
Oh! I didn't expect you at this hour... I got lucky.
Yeah, only because I am not lucky enough to sleep. Yawn.
OK, as to your thoughts:
Yes the infatuation thing was a danger signal for me too :
See, you already knew it. Trust yourself.
after an on-line chat she started sending me emails dripping with hearts and flowers...
This COULD just be silly female crap, don’t read too much into it...I don’t do it but I have a sister who does.
and being hurt when I didn't respond quick enough.
How hurt and how long did you make her wait? I’d need more info to figure this one out.
I considered telling her to back off, but at the same time I liked her... and I need the practice...
What? You needed the practice? Did you tell her she was a petrie dish? I wouldn’t mind helping a dude practice if he said UP FRONT that I was the exhibition season.
My entire purpose is to get people to be open and up front about their motives. When you do that, you are not responsible if someone gets hurt. I may have only implied the converse assertion, that if you are NOT open and up front, you ARE responsible for hurt feelings and that’s not nice. I am not saying that you are doing that purposely, but do think about that. I know it seems a little intimidating at first, but trust me, it is so much easier in the long run. You’ll be glad you found the nerve to do it.
Ick. I don’t feel well. I am going to lie down for a little while.
See ya soon.
Meg
...and I have been tossing and turning. I gave up trying to fall asleep and after listening to some dumb TV show where a bunch of women sit in a house and try to “heal” each other...I became annoyed. Annoying things are not conducive to sleep so I gave up and came out to play on the computer.
I took a xanax and made a decision. Since most of my worries are financial, I decided that I should stop waiting for Vex to come to his senses and send the alimony and just go ahead and file charges for contempt. I’ll be taking all of the print outs of the comments that he and his girlfriend sent to this blog (including the ones that were threatening to my father) and the IP’s from which they were sent. I have waited patiently but that has done no good whatsoever so I have no choice.
Since he is over 30 days behind, I don’t think anyone can accuse be of being unreasonable...this was his idea after all.
By the way, there was a comment that asked me to guess who it was from and I haven’t forgotten, I am just trying to figure it out. I had a couple of guesses, but I want to be sure so I am still on that.
Oh, man, the birds are chirping, I hate being up when the birds are chirping...that means that there’s no way that I can get even a half night’s sleep.
OK, so I will just go ahead and try to accomplish something so here:
I prefer not to discuss my dating problems with my inner circle until I've got something to show for it... is that childish?
Nope. That’s smart. You are actually doing the right thing by asking here because you’ll get a variety of non-biased answers. And inner circle members always feel the need to chat with others in THIER inner circle which may include people with whom you would rather not share your business. And they tell 2 people and so on and so on...
Oh! I didn't expect you at this hour... I got lucky.
Yeah, only because I am not lucky enough to sleep. Yawn.
OK, as to your thoughts:
Yes the infatuation thing was a danger signal for me too :
See, you already knew it. Trust yourself.
after an on-line chat she started sending me emails dripping with hearts and flowers...
This COULD just be silly female crap, don’t read too much into it...I don’t do it but I have a sister who does.
and being hurt when I didn't respond quick enough.
How hurt and how long did you make her wait? I’d need more info to figure this one out.
I considered telling her to back off, but at the same time I liked her... and I need the practice...
What? You needed the practice? Did you tell her she was a petrie dish? I wouldn’t mind helping a dude practice if he said UP FRONT that I was the exhibition season.
My entire purpose is to get people to be open and up front about their motives. When you do that, you are not responsible if someone gets hurt. I may have only implied the converse assertion, that if you are NOT open and up front, you ARE responsible for hurt feelings and that’s not nice. I am not saying that you are doing that purposely, but do think about that. I know it seems a little intimidating at first, but trust me, it is so much easier in the long run. You’ll be glad you found the nerve to do it.
Ick. I don’t feel well. I am going to lie down for a little while.
See ya soon.
Meg
posted by Meg Kelso | 2:16 AM
2 Comments:
Meg, I agree wholeheartedly with your response to "I needed the practice." If I'm going to be somebody's "practice" whatever, I want the training wheels back on already!
HiI...I have hayfever and no sense of humor. Maybe it's a cold...this is crap.
Meg
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