As always,
I like to be fair to both sexes. Neither sex has the market on cruelty. Whenever I post something about some "man from hell" I like to qualify my comments by saying that there are evil women out there as well. My last post referred to an evil wife-from-hell and to be fair, I’d now like to refer to an evil husband-from-hell. This husband has 2 wives that he is torturing, but the second one doesn’t really count and if she is being tortured, I can’t honestly say that I mind too much, she knew that he was married when she started the affair. Now, she didn’t know that he was STILL married when she married the guy and I don’t even know if she does yet! But Tracy, the wife that DOES count, has updated me on their situation so I'm going to put the story here as she has explained it to me. I won’t use her last name, but I’m sure that she wouldn’t mind if you figured it out for yourself. If you recognize the man or the story and happen to know who he is, you might want to clue in the wife that doesn’t count.
Thought I would update you. It seems that my husband filed for divorce before me, so there is a Sheriff looking to serve me with papers. I think it is awfully nice of Randy to want to divorce, now that he is remarried and all. He gave us a whole $165 this month. Cause, that will pay an $1100 mortgage, car insurance, gas, food and clothing for 2 teenaged boys. Everyone tells me that he will get his, but I am starting to panic and get depressed again. Saw that show on Oprah yesterday and was REALLY pissed of. So of course I had to post a response on her web site.
"I am extremely disappointed in the attitude of not only Oprah and Robin, but most of the posts I have seen on this topic. Oprah belittled all bigamy victims with the statement "No matter how many times you go public.....".
I am a victim of Bigamy. My husband did not "love them and leave them" and leave a trail of broken hearts and wallets behind. What he did was walk out of the house, out of the blue one day, and into the house of a woman 2 houses away. She even shares my first name. He then married her BEFORE our divorce was finalized. He fraudently put her on his Navy retiree benefits as his new wife, denying me the ability to get the asthma medicine I need each month. He is refusing to honor the committment to us of paying alimony and support and last this month gave us a whole $165. My children are devastated. I have lost them person I thought I would be with for my life, with no explanation, and he is prancing around town, with a new wedding ring and introducing this woman as his wife. The Navy refuses to do anything, and even though he has violated 2 laws in this state, one of which is a felony and committed fraud against the federal government- I can't even get him arrested. I have a house I cannot afford, 2 teenage boys and a medical condition that is made worse by stress. My mother and father are buying my groceries and making my house payment. To hear that going public as a Bigamy victim won't help and to have it implied that I should just "suck it up" , adds to that stress. Bigamy is a felony - PERIOD. The damage it does to the spouse and children is permanent emotional damage. These men are abusers, the laws need to be enforced. I expected better from Oprah. I expected compassion, not derision and ridicule.
Tracy
Lake, Foley, Al
The next day, Tracy sent me this email:
...As for me, my lawyer has countered with an accusation of adultery, a request for a special session (meaning it will take more than a 3 hour trial) and a request to find Randy in contempt of court for not paying the Alabama required child support amount and not paying bills as we had "within the marriage" or what is known as status quo here. They served him with a 24 question interrogatory and a 17 item demand for documents. He is not answering phone calls from the kids now when they call to ask him for lunch money
Worst part is that my 15 year old had a temp of 102 on Thursday the 23rd. He had been unwell all day. And let me just explain that this particular child never tells you when he is ill. He once broke his collar bone in 2 on the one side. He walked around like that for 2 days and then when the Navy doctor set it, he didn't even wince. So for him to admit to being ill is a big thing. Anyway, I put him in a tub of tepid water and his temp went up! At this point the motherly panic set in. I had no vehicle. My eldest was in Mobile at a Mardis Gras parade and the Toyota is in the shop. So at 9:07 pm on Thursday I called the asshole and left a message saying I needed him to take us to the ER. NOT A WORD SINCE.
I didn’t think that I could explain it any better than Tracy did so I just used her own words. Of course, I asked her permission first, I would never post another person’s story without having their permission. The only thing that I left out was her last name since she told me that the wife who doesn’t count has the same name as hers, I didn’t want to name her per se. But, if you live near Lake Foley Alabama, I bet you can figure out who the bum that Tracy is STILL married to is. If so, ask her charming husband to send his children lunch money. If you have any pull with the US Navy, see if they would be so kind as to let this woman receive the medical coverage to which she is entitled.
I’m quite sure that Tracy is not the only woman going through something like this, logic would tell you that much. I wish there was something that I could do to help this lady. The lottery thing isn’t working out and I’m not sure how I will be able to buy food myself much less help her with lunch money for her kids.
Well, I’m going to go lie down and try to get a little bit of rest. There isn’t a thing that I can do on the weekend to help keep myself out of jail so I’m just going to try to relax and maybe watch a movie or something like that. I’ll be back after I rest a bit.
Meg
I like to be fair to both sexes. Neither sex has the market on cruelty. Whenever I post something about some "man from hell" I like to qualify my comments by saying that there are evil women out there as well. My last post referred to an evil wife-from-hell and to be fair, I’d now like to refer to an evil husband-from-hell. This husband has 2 wives that he is torturing, but the second one doesn’t really count and if she is being tortured, I can’t honestly say that I mind too much, she knew that he was married when she started the affair. Now, she didn’t know that he was STILL married when she married the guy and I don’t even know if she does yet! But Tracy, the wife that DOES count, has updated me on their situation so I'm going to put the story here as she has explained it to me. I won’t use her last name, but I’m sure that she wouldn’t mind if you figured it out for yourself. If you recognize the man or the story and happen to know who he is, you might want to clue in the wife that doesn’t count.
Thought I would update you. It seems that my husband filed for divorce before me, so there is a Sheriff looking to serve me with papers. I think it is awfully nice of Randy to want to divorce, now that he is remarried and all. He gave us a whole $165 this month. Cause, that will pay an $1100 mortgage, car insurance, gas, food and clothing for 2 teenaged boys. Everyone tells me that he will get his, but I am starting to panic and get depressed again. Saw that show on Oprah yesterday and was REALLY pissed of. So of course I had to post a response on her web site.
"I am extremely disappointed in the attitude of not only Oprah and Robin, but most of the posts I have seen on this topic. Oprah belittled all bigamy victims with the statement "No matter how many times you go public.....".
I am a victim of Bigamy. My husband did not "love them and leave them" and leave a trail of broken hearts and wallets behind. What he did was walk out of the house, out of the blue one day, and into the house of a woman 2 houses away. She even shares my first name. He then married her BEFORE our divorce was finalized. He fraudently put her on his Navy retiree benefits as his new wife, denying me the ability to get the asthma medicine I need each month. He is refusing to honor the committment to us of paying alimony and support and last this month gave us a whole $165. My children are devastated. I have lost them person I thought I would be with for my life, with no explanation, and he is prancing around town, with a new wedding ring and introducing this woman as his wife. The Navy refuses to do anything, and even though he has violated 2 laws in this state, one of which is a felony and committed fraud against the federal government- I can't even get him arrested. I have a house I cannot afford, 2 teenage boys and a medical condition that is made worse by stress. My mother and father are buying my groceries and making my house payment. To hear that going public as a Bigamy victim won't help and to have it implied that I should just "suck it up" , adds to that stress. Bigamy is a felony - PERIOD. The damage it does to the spouse and children is permanent emotional damage. These men are abusers, the laws need to be enforced. I expected better from Oprah. I expected compassion, not derision and ridicule.
Tracy
Lake, Foley, Al
The next day, Tracy sent me this email:
...As for me, my lawyer has countered with an accusation of adultery, a request for a special session (meaning it will take more than a 3 hour trial) and a request to find Randy in contempt of court for not paying the Alabama required child support amount and not paying bills as we had "within the marriage" or what is known as status quo here. They served him with a 24 question interrogatory and a 17 item demand for documents. He is not answering phone calls from the kids now when they call to ask him for lunch money
Worst part is that my 15 year old had a temp of 102 on Thursday the 23rd. He had been unwell all day. And let me just explain that this particular child never tells you when he is ill. He once broke his collar bone in 2 on the one side. He walked around like that for 2 days and then when the Navy doctor set it, he didn't even wince. So for him to admit to being ill is a big thing. Anyway, I put him in a tub of tepid water and his temp went up! At this point the motherly panic set in. I had no vehicle. My eldest was in Mobile at a Mardis Gras parade and the Toyota is in the shop. So at 9:07 pm on Thursday I called the asshole and left a message saying I needed him to take us to the ER. NOT A WORD SINCE.
I didn’t think that I could explain it any better than Tracy did so I just used her own words. Of course, I asked her permission first, I would never post another person’s story without having their permission. The only thing that I left out was her last name since she told me that the wife who doesn’t count has the same name as hers, I didn’t want to name her per se. But, if you live near Lake Foley Alabama, I bet you can figure out who the bum that Tracy is STILL married to is. If so, ask her charming husband to send his children lunch money. If you have any pull with the US Navy, see if they would be so kind as to let this woman receive the medical coverage to which she is entitled.
I’m quite sure that Tracy is not the only woman going through something like this, logic would tell you that much. I wish there was something that I could do to help this lady. The lottery thing isn’t working out and I’m not sure how I will be able to buy food myself much less help her with lunch money for her kids.
Well, I’m going to go lie down and try to get a little bit of rest. There isn’t a thing that I can do on the weekend to help keep myself out of jail so I’m just going to try to relax and maybe watch a movie or something like that. I’ll be back after I rest a bit.
Meg
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