Well,
I have actually gotten a few answers from men about those insanely large ta-ta’s. Surprsingly, not one man spoke in support of them. I am not sure why that is, which is why I also wanted to hear from a few implantees. At least on this blog (which as I have said before, is frequented by nice guys to begin with)...most men seemed to feel this was:
I didn't see the picture, but I can say that there is "too big", for me at least.What may be too big to me may be great to another, though. Every guy has his own tastes.
Of course. That’s why I asked a bunch of men and not just one. I wanted to see what most of them thought. I have a friend who wants to get those HUGE things and I am trying to talk her out of it. I wanted her to hear from the men herself. I have gotten a few responses and more should be forthcoming...I hope. Here is one that was what I THOUGHT men would say:
goodness I hope that picture you posted was fake or photoshoped because that is just disgusting.
NO, as far as I am aware...that was a real picture. Thank the freaky brat who accused me of being sexist for ASKING the question that the picture is gone. How can I ask the question if I couldn’t show the picture? And why shouldn’t I ask? And who the hell are you anyway? Now go away and quit bugging me, you judgmental twit.
Anyway, this was nice to hear and seems to be the general opinion of most of the men who responded:
From a purely "look but can't touch" standpoint, I like a nice set of big breasts, as in C to D. Anything bigger either means a woman is out of shape or that they will succumb to gravity in a big way someday. They have to be real or they don't look right and the whole idea turns me off anyway. I have never been with a woman with enhanced breasts, but it seems to me that they are not as sensitive which would also be a big downside in bed.
By the way, I loved the Terri Hatcher Seinfeld quote, “Nine years ago they were real and spectacular, now, they are just real.”
I hear that Terri. Oh well, nice to hear a man say the following, isn’t it ladies?
Even with a perfect, pert pair, they won't last forever and at some point we all have to shed the illusions of youth. As a man, you still have the fantasies as you get older, but also understand that in order to keep chasing those, you're going to have date increasingly younger women who will be able to relate to you less and less as the age gap increases.
What did surprise me were the men who said that they found the fake ones to be a “turn off”:
"Too Big" would be 38DD I guess. Anything fake is a turnoff to me, and I've had a couple of those. I am not attracted to fake tits at all and can honestly say that would be a deal-breaker for me (unless it was done for medical reasons).
Heck, that guy even made an allowance for medical reason! See, some men ARE decent! I am finding that to be truer and truer.
Also, fake breasts don't feel that good and that is a turnoff.
I'm attracted to the sexual part of a woman's body, waist/hips/butt/legs
Hair and eyes are more important then breasts, IMO.
Well, in MOST men’s opinion, I am getting the idea. One guy even compared the fake boobs to the neck rings of National Geographic type practices. I was pleasantly surprised that there are men who think of the woman’s "feelings”:
Sex with women who have sensitive breasts is a lot of fun and gives a nice place to work from as you try to figure out what else turns them on.
Alrighty then. So sensitivity is more important than size...Guy thinks so too as he admit to liking small breasts:
Guilty as charged. I guess that does pretty much take me out the breast enlargement debate, though. :)
No, it doesn’t. I wanted the opinions of men. UB1. Now, what I’d like is to hear from women who have fake ones. Have the men actually TREATED you differently? Oh and by the way, one poor guy felt the need to apologize:
But before you write me off as the typical male pig - thats all just fantasy baseball. Its just strolling down the street thinking "wowsers, she's stacked!"
Now, this didn’t need to be said and what a shame that a man should think that it was necessary. Woman like that freaky brat have made men feel this way about their sexuality while the woman parade their own all over the televisions, billboards and magazines. The women who want the right to “express” themselves sexually yet deny men the same right make me sick. Talk about sexist. YOU are the sexist one, not I. I hear men talk openly about such things and I applaud their honesty. You hear it and you think of them as pigs degrading women. Phooey on you.
Well, that’s my morning coffee entertainment. I’m going to watch the news and see if anything annoys me. If it does, I’ll be right back.
Meg
I have actually gotten a few answers from men about those insanely large ta-ta’s. Surprsingly, not one man spoke in support of them. I am not sure why that is, which is why I also wanted to hear from a few implantees. At least on this blog (which as I have said before, is frequented by nice guys to begin with)...most men seemed to feel this was:
I didn't see the picture, but I can say that there is "too big", for me at least.What may be too big to me may be great to another, though. Every guy has his own tastes.
Of course. That’s why I asked a bunch of men and not just one. I wanted to see what most of them thought. I have a friend who wants to get those HUGE things and I am trying to talk her out of it. I wanted her to hear from the men herself. I have gotten a few responses and more should be forthcoming...I hope. Here is one that was what I THOUGHT men would say:
goodness I hope that picture you posted was fake or photoshoped because that is just disgusting.
NO, as far as I am aware...that was a real picture. Thank the freaky brat who accused me of being sexist for ASKING the question that the picture is gone. How can I ask the question if I couldn’t show the picture? And why shouldn’t I ask? And who the hell are you anyway? Now go away and quit bugging me, you judgmental twit.
Anyway, this was nice to hear and seems to be the general opinion of most of the men who responded:
From a purely "look but can't touch" standpoint, I like a nice set of big breasts, as in C to D. Anything bigger either means a woman is out of shape or that they will succumb to gravity in a big way someday. They have to be real or they don't look right and the whole idea turns me off anyway. I have never been with a woman with enhanced breasts, but it seems to me that they are not as sensitive which would also be a big downside in bed.
By the way, I loved the Terri Hatcher Seinfeld quote, “Nine years ago they were real and spectacular, now, they are just real.”
I hear that Terri. Oh well, nice to hear a man say the following, isn’t it ladies?
Even with a perfect, pert pair, they won't last forever and at some point we all have to shed the illusions of youth. As a man, you still have the fantasies as you get older, but also understand that in order to keep chasing those, you're going to have date increasingly younger women who will be able to relate to you less and less as the age gap increases.
What did surprise me were the men who said that they found the fake ones to be a “turn off”:
"Too Big" would be 38DD I guess. Anything fake is a turnoff to me, and I've had a couple of those. I am not attracted to fake tits at all and can honestly say that would be a deal-breaker for me (unless it was done for medical reasons).
Heck, that guy even made an allowance for medical reason! See, some men ARE decent! I am finding that to be truer and truer.
Also, fake breasts don't feel that good and that is a turnoff.
I'm attracted to the sexual part of a woman's body, waist/hips/butt/legs
Hair and eyes are more important then breasts, IMO.
Well, in MOST men’s opinion, I am getting the idea. One guy even compared the fake boobs to the neck rings of National Geographic type practices. I was pleasantly surprised that there are men who think of the woman’s "feelings”:
Sex with women who have sensitive breasts is a lot of fun and gives a nice place to work from as you try to figure out what else turns them on.
Alrighty then. So sensitivity is more important than size...Guy thinks so too as he admit to liking small breasts:
Guilty as charged. I guess that does pretty much take me out the breast enlargement debate, though. :)
No, it doesn’t. I wanted the opinions of men. UB1. Now, what I’d like is to hear from women who have fake ones. Have the men actually TREATED you differently? Oh and by the way, one poor guy felt the need to apologize:
But before you write me off as the typical male pig - thats all just fantasy baseball. Its just strolling down the street thinking "wowsers, she's stacked!"
Now, this didn’t need to be said and what a shame that a man should think that it was necessary. Woman like that freaky brat have made men feel this way about their sexuality while the woman parade their own all over the televisions, billboards and magazines. The women who want the right to “express” themselves sexually yet deny men the same right make me sick. Talk about sexist. YOU are the sexist one, not I. I hear men talk openly about such things and I applaud their honesty. You hear it and you think of them as pigs degrading women. Phooey on you.
Well, that’s my morning coffee entertainment. I’m going to watch the news and see if anything annoys me. If it does, I’ll be right back.
Meg
posted by Meg Kelso | 2:25 AM
2 Comments:
As far as the fake breasts... I'm a woman... and at the expense of sounding lesbian here... I appreciate the beauty of a PROPORTIONATE woman. I think most people men or women don't go for circus freak big... no offense. I know large breasted women who have had reductions because of their size. I was always kind of small, and had considered for a long time getting implants... but my husband loved my body the way it was. I also wanted to have kids and I asked myself, "If I have a daughter, and she gets teased for being flat chested in high school... how am I going to look at her and tell her she's beautiful and needs to be happy with herself as she is when I'm walking around with water bags stuck up under my flesh?" I also reminded myself of a line in an old rap song, "Baby got Back"... silicone parts are made for toys.
A lovely thing happened though... I had kids... I breastfed... and at 25 years old... even though to me they still look a little small... I have a nice rack that's rounded out to a decent 34C.
I'm a B cup. I sew. All clothing patterns (except those specifically designed for larger women) are drafted for a B cup. Cup size matters quite a bit in terms of fit and drape. I am grateful for my size, because I think flattering clothes can do a lot more for a woman's sexiness than how big her boobs are, and I don't have the time (or the desire) to sew all my own clothes. I can buy off the rack a size that is appropriate for my frame instead of my chest.
I think it's a bummer (a necessary bummer because the way the industry works) that women who are large breasted can't get a good fit right off the rack. Most women don't even realize that they are not being fit nicely by their clothes because standards for tailoring have really gone through the floor in the last century. And, if you're big chested for most of your adult life you become accustomed to the way ready-to-wear clothes fit you and it never enters your head that things could be better. The sloppiness that results from a woman purchasing clothes to accomodate a large chest just winds up making her look fat, even if she isn't. It's a real pleasure to make a large chested woman a shirt with a full bust adjustment built into it and to see the look of genuine amazement on her face when she tries it on for the first time. But then of course, you've set the bar higher and suddenly her clothing costs go way up if she wants to enjoy the luxury of properly fitting clothes from there on out.
As for the male perspective, my husband doesn't read blogs or anything, but I know his opinion after all these years of marriage so I'll put it in for him. He doesn't like fake boobs and he views implants as a sign of insecurity except for those put in for reconstructive reasons. (Whether he's right or not is debatable of course, but I think a lot of women aren't aware that a sizable chunk of the male population views implants that way. Guys do sit around and talk about boobs, lol, so I know for a fact he's not alone in his sentiment.)
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