You know...
I had not even realized how much I had missed cuddling. Man, it felt good. Do yourself a favor and cuddle with someone tonight. And, never, ever take it for granted. It is a lovely thing to do. Also, making out is pretty damn fun as well. There is something nice and sweet about making out when you know there is NOT going to be sex involved. I had forgotten THAT as well. It was great. (Except for the rash on my chin from the little beard thing.) Take your significant other onto the couch tonight and make out. TRY it without having to consumate the evening. Then, let me know how it went. I can't be the only one sharing here!
Meg
I had not even realized how much I had missed cuddling. Man, it felt good. Do yourself a favor and cuddle with someone tonight. And, never, ever take it for granted. It is a lovely thing to do. Also, making out is pretty damn fun as well. There is something nice and sweet about making out when you know there is NOT going to be sex involved. I had forgotten THAT as well. It was great. (Except for the rash on my chin from the little beard thing.) Take your significant other onto the couch tonight and make out. TRY it without having to consumate the evening. Then, let me know how it went. I can't be the only one sharing here!
Meg
posted by Meg Kelso | 3:00 PM
8 Comments:
Meg,
Just wanted to say hello and tell you that I am a fan of your blog.
Let me say this, not all men are scum, it's all about who you choose.
First of all you need to pick a man who is not into sports. This, believe it or not seems to be the biggest indicator of assholery in a man. I married a big geek who hates sports as much as I do and never once has he stepped out on me or even look at another woman the way the sports idiots did when I was in the dating scene.
Second, I did meet my husband online ten years ago! But not through a dating service, noooo. You see, online dating services are where men like Rick hang out. Nice geeky guys that hate sports and nonsense like we do hang out places where geeks hang out like science and tech sites/message boards/discussion groups. Anyplace where lots of science is discussed there will be lots of single geeks. :-)
Ok, now I want to tell you something else, I used to work as a phone sex operator years ago. And Rick TOTALLY
reminds me of the kinds of losers that used to call and pay $3.99 a minute to jack off. They are all balding, fat, middle aged, boring, into sports, and cheating on their wives.
Good luck and let us know how things are going!
A Female Fan
Fannie,
You gave me quite a smile with that comment, thanks for that. Oddly enough, Rick wasn't into sports. He literally had no interests in life except to watch and be sure no one stole the television. I'm so glad that there are people like you out there...it is what keeps me coming back and doing what I am about to do...write the next post.
See ya,
Meg
Fannie,
By the way, love the new word...ASSHOLERY.
Meg
fannythefan,
The assertion of a sports fan link is erroneous. I'm sure you've met asshole sports fans, as have I, but to lump them all together as cheating assholes is a bit of a stretch.
It would be like me saying that every woman that enjoys dancing is a cheating whore. Sure, sometimes I'd be correct, but many times she will be nice women who enjoys dancing.
Rick is the perfect case in point. He apparently didn't like sports, and I think it's clear that he has more than his fair share of "assholery".
I'm a geek who likes sports, so I guess that makes me half-asshole? ;-)
When I worked in phone sex we planned our biz around the televised sports events, that's how we predicted cash flow and traffic.
Sometimes the truth hurts. lol.
NEVER DATE A MAN WHO IS INTO SPORTS.
That is an interesting fact. The generalization is rash and groundless outside the phone ssex business.
The vast majority of men are into some sport (watching, playing, or both) and most of them aren't calling sex lines or abusing women.
It's sort of akin to saying that most women who go to a bar are going to cheat on you because. The bar isn't the issue, it's the woman in question. Decent attached women will go to a bar, have a drink with her friends, and go home alone.
Just for the record, I have my sports-based relationship generalizations... because I'm just as bad as you are with the generalizations: :-)
I totally agree with you if you are talking about a guy who does NOTHING but watch sports. I've known some of those guys and they tend to just drink beer and relive their high school glory days while never doing more than the 12oz curl for exercise. Those guys are still traumatized that their glory is in their past and will do whatever it takes to prop up their shattered ego.
The same is true for a dating a woman who believes as Fanny does. I've found that you can't date a womam with that view on sports because it's the first sign of the me-me-me personality that can't handle a man having an interest in something other than her. It would be the same if the interest were in horror movies instead of sports. It's just something that he digs that she isn't an integral part of that turns her off so much.
I find the true happiness is in the middle ground. I'm always happy to turn off the ball game to talk or go out, but I also expect to have some understanding if I want to watch some events, like the Superbowl. The best is when she is interested in it enough to enjoy it with me. :-)
Oh my God. I really should have proofread that before I submitted it. There are some horrible gramatical errors in that post. I apologize. :-)
LOL, I hate when that happens. But I, master of my blog, can go in and fix them all.
Fannie, I think you sparked something. When people make each other think and respond like this, everyone wins. It's all good.
Meg
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