Just a thought...

...one would think that siblings in their 40's would be mature enough to honor their late mother's wishes. It's amazing how some people can continue their deceptive game playing and childish manipulation tactics into middle age. At some point you would think that an adult would have the honor and courage to speak honestly. This explains why some people have kids who fumble through life without a plan, letting life rule them instead of ruling their own life. If a parent isn't bright enough to set an upright and honest example for their kids, they shouldn't be surprised when their own kids pass the petty habits on to their own children. Then you have those who are so bad that the child Gods don't even trust them with a baby.