LIFE MAY NOT BE THE PARTY WE HOPED FOR, BUT WHILE WE ARE HERE WE MIGHT AS WELL DANCE.
Girl, I even did disco proud in my day. This one should be a pip.
I forgot to answer the question of whether or not I'd lie about my age to get a date with someone.The answer is no. What a stupid thing to lie about. You are absolutely going to get caught, with no exceptions. I'm not a fan of lieing in general, but such a blatant and self-serving lie is surely not going to win over anyone's heart.
Which makes me wonder, maybe the type of person who would lie like that is not really out to win hearts. Maybe decent people assume that from the start, though. So...I guess they know what they are doing. It works so well for them, why shouldn’t they? All they lack is the lesson of not hurting everyone they meet along the way.
Hopefully she did learn something from the ordeal and now insists on protection and is a little more choosy about who she decides to hook up with on a given night.
To say she should insist on protection implies she has some sort of handle or control on the situation. Someone who behaves like that usually doesn’t. Without that kind of control, you don’t think things out all the way and when you do, it really doesn’t matter anyway, you know that “if it feels good do it” thing. They wouldn’t insist on protection, that would have prevented it in the first place. They are more of a danger to others when they are like this. So...what town is this one in?
But did she learn her lesson? Well, she never comes to me for advice anymore, but she is back to her ways. Just like nothing happened. I swear, some people are just a glutton for punishment.
See, I told you.
But once again, assuming they enjoy the punishment implies that they are even thinking about themselves on a level that they really can’t place themselves. It is the opposite of being selfish...it is being asininely (is that a word?) self-LESS. Of course, the results are the same...bad shit happens. This is a direct result of a person either growing up without encouragement and praise or years of being treated like dirt. It is amazing what a person will settle for. Personally, I ended up with a large bald lying cheat.
So, like Thelma said, “Be nice to your wife. My husband wasn’t nice to me and look how I turned out.”
They all basically agree that Rick should die of gonorrhea and burn in hell.
People keep saying things like that. I don’t. :)
You've gotta be almost paranoid.
Well, sometimes we should be paranoid. Even if it’s just ourselves we don’t trust.
Well, things are about to get very interesting for me. I received a phone call from a reporter today. Which one of you are responsible for that? I told her that I had to think about it overnight. I didn’t know if I was “ready” to go public. And then a very smart person made a comment that, I must admit, even I hadn’t thought of:
HELLO..EARTH TO PURPLE HAT?? THE BLOG IS PUBLIC!!
Duh. Even I heard that one loudly and clearly. Yes...it is. So I have a question to ask myself, according to one young lady:
If it were up to me...Well, let me say that I usually go with my gut instinct, which is why not everythingthat happens to me is all glitter and sparkles, but then again, I am the kind of person who likes to kick myself...
What kind of person are you??
Well, Jo, I am a lot like you. I don’t know how much I enjoy kicking myself, but I seem to do a lot of it. And there is always that “freedom’s just another word for nothing left to lose” mentality that I find myself in right now. And then, I have been considering all of the people that do read this thing. I’ve said before that only a decent person would come to read this stuff over and over again so I have you to consider. You...and the fact that, somehow, I know you are the type of people that wouldn’t let anything too bad happen to me. You know, when I put that tip jar thing up there, I thought that there would be a lot of people tossing two bucks into it. But it hasn’t been that way. Just a few people tossed quite a few bucks in there. It paid my gas bill last month and there is no one in my life who did that for me. So, in whom do I have the most faith in right now? You guys. To whom do I owe the most? You guys. Rick has left me in such a scary situation and I couldn’t possibly explain it without appearing to be whining but trust me...it is not good. I have no control over anything that is happening and I feel as though if I could control ANY ONE THING I might be able to grab back a little more. So...I am going to speak to the reporter in the morning. This thing IS public and if he hasn’t found out about it yet...I can control how he does. And, I didn't lie about anything. I didn't have to. I didn't even have to embellish the truth, I just put it out there. That's one of the nice things about not lying, the truth is on your side. Rick, in the end, all that's left IS the truth. It may not be much, but it's all I have.
Ah...there is a good song on....I am going to dance again.
Meg
Girl, I even did disco proud in my day. This one should be a pip.
I forgot to answer the question of whether or not I'd lie about my age to get a date with someone.The answer is no. What a stupid thing to lie about. You are absolutely going to get caught, with no exceptions. I'm not a fan of lieing in general, but such a blatant and self-serving lie is surely not going to win over anyone's heart.
Which makes me wonder, maybe the type of person who would lie like that is not really out to win hearts. Maybe decent people assume that from the start, though. So...I guess they know what they are doing. It works so well for them, why shouldn’t they? All they lack is the lesson of not hurting everyone they meet along the way.
Hopefully she did learn something from the ordeal and now insists on protection and is a little more choosy about who she decides to hook up with on a given night.
To say she should insist on protection implies she has some sort of handle or control on the situation. Someone who behaves like that usually doesn’t. Without that kind of control, you don’t think things out all the way and when you do, it really doesn’t matter anyway, you know that “if it feels good do it” thing. They wouldn’t insist on protection, that would have prevented it in the first place. They are more of a danger to others when they are like this. So...what town is this one in?
But did she learn her lesson? Well, she never comes to me for advice anymore, but she is back to her ways. Just like nothing happened. I swear, some people are just a glutton for punishment.
See, I told you.
But once again, assuming they enjoy the punishment implies that they are even thinking about themselves on a level that they really can’t place themselves. It is the opposite of being selfish...it is being asininely (is that a word?) self-LESS. Of course, the results are the same...bad shit happens. This is a direct result of a person either growing up without encouragement and praise or years of being treated like dirt. It is amazing what a person will settle for. Personally, I ended up with a large bald lying cheat.
So, like Thelma said, “Be nice to your wife. My husband wasn’t nice to me and look how I turned out.”
They all basically agree that Rick should die of gonorrhea and burn in hell.
People keep saying things like that. I don’t. :)
You've gotta be almost paranoid.
Well, sometimes we should be paranoid. Even if it’s just ourselves we don’t trust.
Well, things are about to get very interesting for me. I received a phone call from a reporter today. Which one of you are responsible for that? I told her that I had to think about it overnight. I didn’t know if I was “ready” to go public. And then a very smart person made a comment that, I must admit, even I hadn’t thought of:
HELLO..EARTH TO PURPLE HAT?? THE BLOG IS PUBLIC!!
Duh. Even I heard that one loudly and clearly. Yes...it is. So I have a question to ask myself, according to one young lady:
If it were up to me...Well, let me say that I usually go with my gut instinct, which is why not everythingthat happens to me is all glitter and sparkles, but then again, I am the kind of person who likes to kick myself...
What kind of person are you??
Well, Jo, I am a lot like you. I don’t know how much I enjoy kicking myself, but I seem to do a lot of it. And there is always that “freedom’s just another word for nothing left to lose” mentality that I find myself in right now. And then, I have been considering all of the people that do read this thing. I’ve said before that only a decent person would come to read this stuff over and over again so I have you to consider. You...and the fact that, somehow, I know you are the type of people that wouldn’t let anything too bad happen to me. You know, when I put that tip jar thing up there, I thought that there would be a lot of people tossing two bucks into it. But it hasn’t been that way. Just a few people tossed quite a few bucks in there. It paid my gas bill last month and there is no one in my life who did that for me. So, in whom do I have the most faith in right now? You guys. To whom do I owe the most? You guys. Rick has left me in such a scary situation and I couldn’t possibly explain it without appearing to be whining but trust me...it is not good. I have no control over anything that is happening and I feel as though if I could control ANY ONE THING I might be able to grab back a little more. So...I am going to speak to the reporter in the morning. This thing IS public and if he hasn’t found out about it yet...I can control how he does. And, I didn't lie about anything. I didn't have to. I didn't even have to embellish the truth, I just put it out there. That's one of the nice things about not lying, the truth is on your side. Rick, in the end, all that's left IS the truth. It may not be much, but it's all I have.
Ah...there is a good song on....I am going to dance again.
Meg
posted by Meg Kelso | 10:05 PM
1 Comments:
I didn't mean that promiscuous women wouldn't use protection, I meant the type of woman (or man) that has NOT demanded it and has been infected with an STD. Sure, you can be loose and use protection...but you can also be too crazy to bother.
Meg
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