Meg...
...The tough thing about saying your marriage/divorce has no lies (like I said about mine at one point) is that the lies are usually there. You just don't know about them yet.
Absolutely. I found out about many lies after Vex left. When the liar isn’t there to manipulate you anymore, you see things you should have seen in the first place.
What we have in common is divorcing someone we lived with for 20 years... everything else is different.
I like to think that that is the part I spend most of my time on.
Hmm have you got any of the Vex's personal effects that you could auction too?
They went in last summer’s “Betrayed Wife Sale.” It got a mention in the Marietta Daily Journal’s Seen Around Town section.
I just found this site two days ago and am just now really reading it. So forgive me, but who is this Kevin and why is he stalking? Do you have any idea at all?
I do now. By the way....Kevin...Yes, I have seen you, of course. Who hasn’t? I’m sorry I splashed your comments up here but I didn’t know who you were. I will keep your secret as long as you want me to.
What a shot-in the heart to discover that your wife is in another bed with her legs open.
Yeah, I can relate. I got that shot in the heart too but it wasn’t a lady who I imagined spreading their legs.
...one of the main reasons I married ole Tex is because he's never needed a back-up pitcher, he knows where the cut-off man is and he knows how to sweet talk the umpire.
What a lucky lady!
How about calling him your "vex" husband? 'V' could stand for very, or verminous, or vituperative, or vitriolic, or venomous, or... well, you get the idea.
I looked up the definition of Vex and decided it fit perfectly. Fang was taken.
.... the furniture's not ours you see, que sera sera .... Isn't that what Doris Day sang?
LOLOL, that was cute.
I didn't realize or even suspect the love of my life was cheating until he made changes in his behavior that were eerily like Rick's.
Love isn’t blind, it is just so extraordinarily slow on the uptake. I KNEW the signs, I've seen Oprah. But he is just such a very good liar and I wanted to believe him. But, as I said, once you put time and distance between you and the coward who is afraid to tell you the truth, you see things much more clearly.
She is only with him (and she told me this herself) because she grew up without a father, and said that no matter what, her daughter will not be the same. So she stays with him, even though they are both more like friends than companions. He picks out her clothes, he plans her days and what they will do after work. These two do not do ANYTHING without the other. She is so sick of it. They work the same days, have the same days off, dress exactly the same...etc. She is unhappy in the relationship, but thinks that is unimportant because she sees how happy her daughter is.
I think that your friend is using her daughter’s supposed need for a father to cover up for her own insecurities.
...my wife is 15 years older then I am. No problem with that. She is beautiful as she ever was.
There are so many lucky couples out there. I hope they feel like this forever.
Well, I must go act like the laundry needs doing.
Meg
...The tough thing about saying your marriage/divorce has no lies (like I said about mine at one point) is that the lies are usually there. You just don't know about them yet.
Absolutely. I found out about many lies after Vex left. When the liar isn’t there to manipulate you anymore, you see things you should have seen in the first place.
What we have in common is divorcing someone we lived with for 20 years... everything else is different.
I like to think that that is the part I spend most of my time on.
Hmm have you got any of the Vex's personal effects that you could auction too?
They went in last summer’s “Betrayed Wife Sale.” It got a mention in the Marietta Daily Journal’s Seen Around Town section.
I just found this site two days ago and am just now really reading it. So forgive me, but who is this Kevin and why is he stalking? Do you have any idea at all?
I do now. By the way....Kevin...Yes, I have seen you, of course. Who hasn’t? I’m sorry I splashed your comments up here but I didn’t know who you were. I will keep your secret as long as you want me to.
What a shot-in the heart to discover that your wife is in another bed with her legs open.
Yeah, I can relate. I got that shot in the heart too but it wasn’t a lady who I imagined spreading their legs.
...one of the main reasons I married ole Tex is because he's never needed a back-up pitcher, he knows where the cut-off man is and he knows how to sweet talk the umpire.
What a lucky lady!
How about calling him your "vex" husband? 'V' could stand for very, or verminous, or vituperative, or vitriolic, or venomous, or... well, you get the idea.
I looked up the definition of Vex and decided it fit perfectly. Fang was taken.
.... the furniture's not ours you see, que sera sera .... Isn't that what Doris Day sang?
LOLOL, that was cute.
I didn't realize or even suspect the love of my life was cheating until he made changes in his behavior that were eerily like Rick's.
Love isn’t blind, it is just so extraordinarily slow on the uptake. I KNEW the signs, I've seen Oprah. But he is just such a very good liar and I wanted to believe him. But, as I said, once you put time and distance between you and the coward who is afraid to tell you the truth, you see things much more clearly.
She is only with him (and she told me this herself) because she grew up without a father, and said that no matter what, her daughter will not be the same. So she stays with him, even though they are both more like friends than companions. He picks out her clothes, he plans her days and what they will do after work. These two do not do ANYTHING without the other. She is so sick of it. They work the same days, have the same days off, dress exactly the same...etc. She is unhappy in the relationship, but thinks that is unimportant because she sees how happy her daughter is.
I think that your friend is using her daughter’s supposed need for a father to cover up for her own insecurities.
...my wife is 15 years older then I am. No problem with that. She is beautiful as she ever was.
There are so many lucky couples out there. I hope they feel like this forever.
Well, I must go act like the laundry needs doing.
Meg
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