Meg...
...Focus on your health, not him...or her. Leave em' in the trailer park with the rest of the trash. Do, however, take everything he's got!
LOL, Woman, I hear ya roaring. Trust me, I am taking care of myself. But I need to have some fun every so often and this thing is very fun to me. Also, being as cathartic as it is, I believe it is in my care plan! I would hate to leave this world without having my say!
Unfortunately, he has nothing. He came into this marriage with a beat up car and a Bicentennial Pepsi bottle. He left with a slightly better car and no Pepsi bottle. Of course, there is that alimony thing, which he offered.
I would hate to be the woman who has to help pay the bills as he sends me $800 every month. Personally, I didn’t mind the child support he paid throughout most of our marriage, I respected that. But, if he had been paying alimony, it would have bugged me to no end.
I’ve heard people say, “He can leave, but after you are done with him, leave him in a situation where no one else would want him.” Well, his options are a bit limited. No self respecting working woman would want him at this point. But, if he stuck to women with self respect, he and I would still be married, sadly. So, all in all, I’ve got to thank the nit wit who took him. I thought my life would end if he left. Well, I was wrong. Not only am I still here, my life is better than it has been in 20 years! I don’t blame anyone but myself for marrying Vex, I knew how good life could be but I traded it all in for him...and I did it after contemplation! I knew he had nothing, but like I said before, my ex had plenty but he spent it on other women. So, I actually thought that a man with nothing was worth having because he couldn’t afford another woman. I just forgot how cheaply some of them come. Oh well, mea culpa.
Talk about "Hear me roar!"
Meg
...Focus on your health, not him...or her. Leave em' in the trailer park with the rest of the trash. Do, however, take everything he's got!
LOL, Woman, I hear ya roaring. Trust me, I am taking care of myself. But I need to have some fun every so often and this thing is very fun to me. Also, being as cathartic as it is, I believe it is in my care plan! I would hate to leave this world without having my say!
Unfortunately, he has nothing. He came into this marriage with a beat up car and a Bicentennial Pepsi bottle. He left with a slightly better car and no Pepsi bottle. Of course, there is that alimony thing, which he offered.
I would hate to be the woman who has to help pay the bills as he sends me $800 every month. Personally, I didn’t mind the child support he paid throughout most of our marriage, I respected that. But, if he had been paying alimony, it would have bugged me to no end.
I’ve heard people say, “He can leave, but after you are done with him, leave him in a situation where no one else would want him.” Well, his options are a bit limited. No self respecting working woman would want him at this point. But, if he stuck to women with self respect, he and I would still be married, sadly. So, all in all, I’ve got to thank the nit wit who took him. I thought my life would end if he left. Well, I was wrong. Not only am I still here, my life is better than it has been in 20 years! I don’t blame anyone but myself for marrying Vex, I knew how good life could be but I traded it all in for him...and I did it after contemplation! I knew he had nothing, but like I said before, my ex had plenty but he spent it on other women. So, I actually thought that a man with nothing was worth having because he couldn’t afford another woman. I just forgot how cheaply some of them come. Oh well, mea culpa.
Talk about "Hear me roar!"
Meg
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