Good morning!

I woke up this morning and looked for the coffee that I bought the other day. It doesn't seem to be in the kitchen at all. If I left it at the grocery store I am going to be one angry female. Usually there's a bit of leftover coffee from yesterday but today there isn't.

So, now I'm drinking Kool-aid instead of coffee. It's not warm, it's for children and it has no caffeine in it. I'm not going to be happy for a while. If I were a crack-head, I'd just do some of that but I'm not and even if I wanted to start, I wouldn't know where in the hell to get the stuff. So, here I am, sleepy (but I have to get up) and irritated because I paid for a can of coffee that I can't find. On top of all that, I'm surrounded by mewing cats and a dog that keeps licking my elbow which is now covered with dog slime.

Even in my foul mood, when I sat down and found the following comment, I decided to dismiss my urge to be a smart ass. Rather, I'm going to put the comment right here, in a post, and then I'll let you guys decide whether or not this person is a female trying to be a jerk or a man trying to "get back" at all of us "bitter" women by writing something that really does nothing but make him look like an ass. Even in my sleepy and rotten mood, I decided to consider that this may have been written by someone who truly has been hurt by a woman. I doubt it, it's far too vague so I doubt it was written regarding one particular woman...it's more of a diatribe against all women.

My rantings have been about one man in particular because I was devastated by one man. I've gone out of my way to be fair to men in general for close to 3 years while I have written about my experiences. But this person didn't do that. Here's the comment:

Cheating Women. Why Do They Do It?

Why do some women cheat? Can you stop cheating women? More women are choosing to cheat on their partners than ever before. This article will list the main reasons why some women cheat.
1. Revenge. Although you didn't sleep with someone else, you may as well have. You have broken her trust in some other way. Cheating women often sleep with someone else to pay you back for that dodgy investment or the lie she caught you out on. Apologize profusely and hopefully she will forgive you instead of joining the cheating women society.
2. Feeling unappreciated. Do you treat your wife or girlfriend like an unpaid nanny? Do you ever thank her for all those boring chores she does in and out of the house? What is she doing while you are playing golf? Housework? Minding the children? Seeing someone else? Cheating women often do so because they feel totally neglected at home. Show her you do appreciate her. Say thank you. Notice what has been done. Give her some help. Cheating women are looking for some appreciation and thanks.
3. The honeymoon is over. Another motivator for cheating women is that they are not getting enough sex at home. Once that sexual glow has gone and the sex becomes less frequent, cheating women look for it elsewhere. Try and put some time aside for sex. Go to bed early instead o f falling asleep in front of the TV could be all you need to do.
4. Boring sex. Cheating women often say that it is the excitement of the affair that is the big attraction. Sex at home has become boring and routine. Try and put a spark back into your sex life so that your partner need not leave home to find sexual adventure. Cheating women love the thrill of the illicit affair.
5. Low self esteem. Having someone pay attention to you can really boost your ego. Cheating women are often looking for the flattery they are not getting at home. Pay your partner some attention, flatter her, and prevent her from becoming a cheating woman.
6. No intimacy. All women need to feel close to their loved ones. Cheating women have given up on getting it from their partners and are looking elsewhere. Hugs, kisses, massages, all will make her feel closer to you.
7. No emotional input. Women need you to talk about your emotions. You may think it is worse than going to the dentist. Cheating women are looking for the emotional feed back they are not getting at home. Cheating women can be prevented just by expressing your emotions.
8. You cheated first. Cheating women are often paying back their husband for his sexual infidelity. Sexual revenge is a huge motivator for cheating women. This kind of tit for tat is only going to hurt you both.
9. Sayonara. Some cheating women have already mentally left the relationship and are looking for the replacement. Emotionally, this cheating woman has already left you. She probably isn't planning on staying.
With some attention and flattery your partner need not join the lengthening list of cheating women.

OK then, what the heck was that? And what do you think about the person who wrote it? I just pray to God that neither me, my daughter, nor any other women that I care about ever meets this person because if it is a man, it's one angry man who hasn't the capacity to respect women. I would wager he has been incarcerated for assault more than once.

Now, I could be wrong, it could be one really sweet guy who adores his mother and all the other women in his life. Perhaps he is the type of man who helps with the housework, pays the bills, takes care of his women in the sack and worships the ground they walk on. Maybe they just want to warn OTHER guys. Anyway, what do you think?

I have to go to my chemo appointment today and the next one is the last one! I can't wait for this crap to end. Maybe I'll treat myself to Starbucks after today's appointment is over...and then I'll be in a better mood when I come home. For the time being, I have to get ready to go and when I get back, I'll be more myself and I'll write a normal post.

See ya!