Meg,
I have to say you and your dad have something in common....you both spend/waste way too much time with awful people in your lives, instead of getting rid of them.
So true...but I DID get rid of mine...twenty years after I should have...but he is gone!
She is obviously financially independent so she should be placed in private care somewhere or move in with her daughter....who probably doesn't want her around either.
Oh...she’s financially independent, that’s for sure. And, no...her daughter wants nothing to do with her. She refuses to be placed anywhere. They had her in an assisted living facility...but she brought her car and was the chauffeur for all the other old people. I can’t believe she didn’t kill anyone. She wouldn’t qualify now anyway...they don’t take people who wet their beds and that’s a rare problem but it does occasionally happen. So, she belongs in a nursing home. I’ve worked in enough of them to know that for sure. Her only other option is my father and he’s in his 70's.
The Alzheimer is certainly doing nothing to slow down 'awful'. She is lucid enough to be manipulative and rude.
Unbelievable...isn’t it? I’m amazed that someone who can’t remember a conversation from 5 minutes ago can still think well enough to be so hideously nasty. You have her pegged. I LOVE Alzheimer’s patients, they’re my favorite people to care for. If a person is sweet and they get Alzheimer’s, you have a sweet Alzheimer’s patient. If they’re mean and nasty...you have a mean and nasty Alzheimer’s patient.
My neighbour's bf has just been diagnosed with Alzheimer's. She just found this bf around 5yrs ago. I was so happy for her, the man is NICE, very pleasant and well-mannered. Her Ex was an asshole. After 25yrs of marriage to her and raising 2 sons he built a house with his secretary and left her.
What a bum. But, thank God that she found someone to love and that loves her back...it’s just a shame that some of us have to go through so much BS before we find a decent mate. What a shame that he has contracted this dreadful disease.
Meg, seems like your dad is the one with Alzheimer's, did he forget why he wasn't married to her anymore?
LOLOL...I actually had the same thought. I could go on and on about the things this nut has done...but why?
Anyway, my father doesn’t have Alzheimer’s...but the nut lady has a very large estate and his share gets larger every time she changes her will. And, she seems to change it quite often. The lawyer who helps her with that plays bridge with her (and she wins!) so he doesn’t realize that she’s insane.
Go figure.
OK...now I’ve made dinner. I need to serve it and then work on the stencling that she hates so much!
Meggers
I have to say you and your dad have something in common....you both spend/waste way too much time with awful people in your lives, instead of getting rid of them.
So true...but I DID get rid of mine...twenty years after I should have...but he is gone!
She is obviously financially independent so she should be placed in private care somewhere or move in with her daughter....who probably doesn't want her around either.
Oh...she’s financially independent, that’s for sure. And, no...her daughter wants nothing to do with her. She refuses to be placed anywhere. They had her in an assisted living facility...but she brought her car and was the chauffeur for all the other old people. I can’t believe she didn’t kill anyone. She wouldn’t qualify now anyway...they don’t take people who wet their beds and that’s a rare problem but it does occasionally happen. So, she belongs in a nursing home. I’ve worked in enough of them to know that for sure. Her only other option is my father and he’s in his 70's.
The Alzheimer is certainly doing nothing to slow down 'awful'. She is lucid enough to be manipulative and rude.
Unbelievable...isn’t it? I’m amazed that someone who can’t remember a conversation from 5 minutes ago can still think well enough to be so hideously nasty. You have her pegged. I LOVE Alzheimer’s patients, they’re my favorite people to care for. If a person is sweet and they get Alzheimer’s, you have a sweet Alzheimer’s patient. If they’re mean and nasty...you have a mean and nasty Alzheimer’s patient.
My neighbour's bf has just been diagnosed with Alzheimer's. She just found this bf around 5yrs ago. I was so happy for her, the man is NICE, very pleasant and well-mannered. Her Ex was an asshole. After 25yrs of marriage to her and raising 2 sons he built a house with his secretary and left her.
What a bum. But, thank God that she found someone to love and that loves her back...it’s just a shame that some of us have to go through so much BS before we find a decent mate. What a shame that he has contracted this dreadful disease.
Meg, seems like your dad is the one with Alzheimer's, did he forget why he wasn't married to her anymore?
LOLOL...I actually had the same thought. I could go on and on about the things this nut has done...but why?
Anyway, my father doesn’t have Alzheimer’s...but the nut lady has a very large estate and his share gets larger every time she changes her will. And, she seems to change it quite often. The lawyer who helps her with that plays bridge with her (and she wins!) so he doesn’t realize that she’s insane.
Go figure.
OK...now I’ve made dinner. I need to serve it and then work on the stencling that she hates so much!
Meggers
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Meg, if you are able to, please post a pic or two of the stencilling. Would love to see how it turned out.
I'd love to...just to get normal people's opinion of my lovely work...and to show you how nice it looks and how unreasonable the nut lady is!!!!
Now...all I need is a camera.
Oh...my father has a digital camera...if he has the cord.
Meg
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