OK JQ,
Here we go again...if you want to take a woman to the moon, it's a bit of a commitment. I thought I might mention a few things that are very nice to do. Most of us are very easy to please, we are usually pretty happy just to be loved. I've heard it said that women give sex to get love and men give love to get sex. So, you have to figure out what love means to your woman. Some of us are cryptic, and some of us aren't but I think that most of us would tell you exactly what it means to us if you asked. So ask. Ask what you can do to make her feel as loved as she is. Tell her you don't want to ever look back and say, "If only I had done more for you." But, on your own you could:
Bring her coffee in the morning before she gets out of bed.
Offer a backrub after the day is over. (And EVERY SINGLE TIME she says, "My back is killing me.")
Surprise her with flowers, delivered to her, for absolutely no reason at all. (Can you imagine her co-workers telling her what a great guy she has?)
Call her unexpededly just to say "Hi, I was thinking about you and had to call."
Demand that she take a day off and take care of her "chores" for that day leaving her to be free to do whatever she wants to do.
Call her, tell her to dress up and go to a local nightspot. Then go there yourself and pick her up like you've never met her before...after watching her turn down a couple other guys.
When shopping, be alert to little things that she would enjoy and take them to her. (Pay for them first.)
On a fine spring day, make her a little flower patch in her yard.
Pitch in while she's cooking dinner.
Ask her if she knows how much you love her.
There are a million and four things you can do that are not at all costly, no matter what currency is involved. And they are ALL good investments. A woman who knows she is loved is just plain better in bed. She has less to worry about in the self esteem department and can then take more time to feel and enjoy you. And when you can make a woman feel totally open with you...you've made quite a bit of progress toward the moon.
Then, of course, there's the part that you were talking about. Well, let's just say that I really, really like Exile's Kiss You All Over. Mainly, you need to see to it that she's a comfy as can be around you...figure out how to do that, we're all different. And you'll be going in the right direction.
OK then, any specific questions?
Meg
Here we go again...if you want to take a woman to the moon, it's a bit of a commitment. I thought I might mention a few things that are very nice to do. Most of us are very easy to please, we are usually pretty happy just to be loved. I've heard it said that women give sex to get love and men give love to get sex. So, you have to figure out what love means to your woman. Some of us are cryptic, and some of us aren't but I think that most of us would tell you exactly what it means to us if you asked. So ask. Ask what you can do to make her feel as loved as she is. Tell her you don't want to ever look back and say, "If only I had done more for you." But, on your own you could:
Bring her coffee in the morning before she gets out of bed.
Offer a backrub after the day is over. (And EVERY SINGLE TIME she says, "My back is killing me.")
Surprise her with flowers, delivered to her, for absolutely no reason at all. (Can you imagine her co-workers telling her what a great guy she has?)
Call her unexpededly just to say "Hi, I was thinking about you and had to call."
Demand that she take a day off and take care of her "chores" for that day leaving her to be free to do whatever she wants to do.
Call her, tell her to dress up and go to a local nightspot. Then go there yourself and pick her up like you've never met her before...after watching her turn down a couple other guys.
When shopping, be alert to little things that she would enjoy and take them to her. (Pay for them first.)
On a fine spring day, make her a little flower patch in her yard.
Pitch in while she's cooking dinner.
Ask her if she knows how much you love her.
There are a million and four things you can do that are not at all costly, no matter what currency is involved. And they are ALL good investments. A woman who knows she is loved is just plain better in bed. She has less to worry about in the self esteem department and can then take more time to feel and enjoy you. And when you can make a woman feel totally open with you...you've made quite a bit of progress toward the moon.
Then, of course, there's the part that you were talking about. Well, let's just say that I really, really like Exile's Kiss You All Over. Mainly, you need to see to it that she's a comfy as can be around you...figure out how to do that, we're all different. And you'll be going in the right direction.
OK then, any specific questions?
Meg
posted by Meg Kelso | 4:19 PM
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