Meg...
“...You're a very nice woman. You're a pleasure to speak with on the telephone. I'm sure you'd be great to grab a cup of coffee with. I think you might just not believe you are owed what your 'blog people' believe you are.”
See, this is a perfect example of why I love this blog and how it keeps me from slitting my wrists. People are so kind to me and if it weren’t for emails like this one, I would not be anywhere near as happy as I am today. I can never thank my “blog people” enough for that.
Vex was supposed to love, honor, and cherish you until your last breath. He instead chose to shack up with Miss Trailer Trash, and leave you when you needed to be loved and cherished the most. I think he deserves to pay for what he did wrong. A small part of me hopes he realizes someday the pain he caused you. The rest of me sees that he is too arrogant to *gasp* take the appropriate blame for what he did. He deserves to suffer some financial hardship.
I wish the people at divorce court would understand this, they would if it was their marriage that had fallen apart. I feel the exact same way...I hope he realizes it but then I know that he believes what he wants to believe and that is usually whatever makes him feel good about himself. In this case, it means that he has to continue lying to himself so that the reality of what he did doesn’t interfere with his ability to be happy with the trailer trash. At this point though, I prefer to concentrate on my life and what I have to look forward to. That is so cool because the opportunities are endless! I can literally do ANYTHING I want to do. I can travel when I want, I can go out at the drop of a hat, I can walk around the house naked (I probably wouldn’t do that, but if I wanted to, I could!), I can eat a Hot Pocket instead of cooking a meal or I can cook the meal....BUT ONLY IF I WANT TO! If I want to talk on the phone to a friend, I can. It’s my phone. If I want to bring a man to my house, I can, it is MY house. If I want to have a party with all of my “blog people”, all I have to do is say that my birthday is June29th and I would love to have all of you here to help me celebrate it!
Meg-HOLYSH*T, just happened to surf in and can't believe how similar our situations are, it's staggering! *rushing over to the archives to catch up on the back story*Yours in cheating husband sisterhoodFisherman's Daughter
Amazing, isn’t it? We all have so much in common even though we never met and our “adulterous others” have never met. Still, we know exactly how each other feels. We are all in different stages of healing and I hope that we can each share our lessons with each other. That was one of the two original reasons that I started this thing. The other reason was so that I could become an annoying part of cheater’s lives, a constant reminder that you shouldn’t lie, hit or be cruel to each other. If I keep plugging away at this, sooner or later, I will be popping up in Vex’s face without ever going near him. The newspaper article was going to be a big part of that plan but they screwed me...I think they are waiting for it to be more convenient for Vex and his attorney. I could be wrong, but they were going full speed with this article at one point, sent over a photo-journalist and everything. Now, the story that was supposed to be in the paper last month has waited for one missing girl, one dying wife, and now, one Pope’s funeral. Now the Prince of Monaco has died and I am sure that there will be a whole host of stories that could put this one on the back burner. So, screw ‘em. I am going to do it myself.
You can’t keep me down, many have tried, none have succeeded.
“Still, my point was that you don't urgently need a car, because you have one, legitimately. Unless your aunt suddenly turns up (then you'd have to murder her to keep the car... har.”
Yeah, I do have one for the moment. But I have had three of them and each time I never knew when I would have to return them to the rightful owner. I literally couldn’t plan a thing that required a car because I never knew when it would be gone. I have doctor’s appointments to go to about 3-4 times a month and I like to drive to the store. I wouldn’t mind walking TO the store, it’s just that I have a hard time with the bags on the way home, especially if I buy milk. And, when I need milk AND bleach, hell, I put my shoulder’s into spasms before I get home. Also, don’t forget my plan. I can’t very well go out and find men without a car.Well, I suppose I could but I would hate to have an arrest for solicitation on my record. I have gone through life without going to jail and I am trying to get through the rest of it the same way. I sat in this house for months last winter and not ONE man came to my door. Well, there was the hobo from Thanksgiving, but he wasn’t my type, too short. Oh yeah, the guy who came to turn off the electricity the day after Vex left was cute, but he turned off my lights so I didn’t like him. Vex had all of the utilities turned off one day without telling me. Like I said, he used an old restraining order as a how-to list. Everything it said he couldn’t do, he did. Actually, it ended up helping me out. I would have had to pay the old bills to keep them on and they were all in his name. I had to put up deposits but they were less than the balance Vex owed because he had stopped paying bills a lot sooner than I had thought. So, he did me a favor by trying to screw me that time.
I still think you need to have a reasonable idea of how much the tax business is worth to Veck.
Well, I found out that something someone wrote in yesterday was true, a state court cannot erase my debt to the IRS. Vex can be held in contempt of state court, but that would only happen after I had my refund taken by the IRS and I don’t think they ever give money back once they take it so the fact that Vex agreed to pay the IRS does not impress me at all. I assumed that if the papers said he had to pay it, he did. What a joke. I can’t believe no one told me that. He agreed to be responsible for something that he can’t be held to. Well, I could get him for contempt of court, but that would do me no good, my refund would still be gone and the money still owed. So, as I said, I have a call into my attorney’s office. I’ll let you all know what is going on later.
Well, I have to get dressed, I have a lunch date with youngin’ #1. He called last night and said he wanted to speak to me so I am going to meet him for lunch. Youngin’ #2 is on much more solid ground as far as I am concerned, he is more mature, independent and ever so much better looking. Not that I am superficial, but it certainly can tip the scale. Also, I have a bunch of errands to run, I hate that it is so yuchy outside, it hasn’t rained yet but it looks like it most certainly will soon. And I am afraid because when it rains, that stupid main line clogs and I get a flood. What is the record for steam cleaning a carpet in one month? I think I am close to breaking it.
Have a great day and I will report back soon!!!
Meg
“...You're a very nice woman. You're a pleasure to speak with on the telephone. I'm sure you'd be great to grab a cup of coffee with. I think you might just not believe you are owed what your 'blog people' believe you are.”
See, this is a perfect example of why I love this blog and how it keeps me from slitting my wrists. People are so kind to me and if it weren’t for emails like this one, I would not be anywhere near as happy as I am today. I can never thank my “blog people” enough for that.
Vex was supposed to love, honor, and cherish you until your last breath. He instead chose to shack up with Miss Trailer Trash, and leave you when you needed to be loved and cherished the most. I think he deserves to pay for what he did wrong. A small part of me hopes he realizes someday the pain he caused you. The rest of me sees that he is too arrogant to *gasp* take the appropriate blame for what he did. He deserves to suffer some financial hardship.
I wish the people at divorce court would understand this, they would if it was their marriage that had fallen apart. I feel the exact same way...I hope he realizes it but then I know that he believes what he wants to believe and that is usually whatever makes him feel good about himself. In this case, it means that he has to continue lying to himself so that the reality of what he did doesn’t interfere with his ability to be happy with the trailer trash. At this point though, I prefer to concentrate on my life and what I have to look forward to. That is so cool because the opportunities are endless! I can literally do ANYTHING I want to do. I can travel when I want, I can go out at the drop of a hat, I can walk around the house naked (I probably wouldn’t do that, but if I wanted to, I could!), I can eat a Hot Pocket instead of cooking a meal or I can cook the meal....BUT ONLY IF I WANT TO! If I want to talk on the phone to a friend, I can. It’s my phone. If I want to bring a man to my house, I can, it is MY house. If I want to have a party with all of my “blog people”, all I have to do is say that my birthday is June29th and I would love to have all of you here to help me celebrate it!
Meg-HOLYSH*T, just happened to surf in and can't believe how similar our situations are, it's staggering! *rushing over to the archives to catch up on the back story*Yours in cheating husband sisterhoodFisherman's Daughter
Amazing, isn’t it? We all have so much in common even though we never met and our “adulterous others” have never met. Still, we know exactly how each other feels. We are all in different stages of healing and I hope that we can each share our lessons with each other. That was one of the two original reasons that I started this thing. The other reason was so that I could become an annoying part of cheater’s lives, a constant reminder that you shouldn’t lie, hit or be cruel to each other. If I keep plugging away at this, sooner or later, I will be popping up in Vex’s face without ever going near him. The newspaper article was going to be a big part of that plan but they screwed me...I think they are waiting for it to be more convenient for Vex and his attorney. I could be wrong, but they were going full speed with this article at one point, sent over a photo-journalist and everything. Now, the story that was supposed to be in the paper last month has waited for one missing girl, one dying wife, and now, one Pope’s funeral. Now the Prince of Monaco has died and I am sure that there will be a whole host of stories that could put this one on the back burner. So, screw ‘em. I am going to do it myself.
You can’t keep me down, many have tried, none have succeeded.
“Still, my point was that you don't urgently need a car, because you have one, legitimately. Unless your aunt suddenly turns up (then you'd have to murder her to keep the car... har.”
Yeah, I do have one for the moment. But I have had three of them and each time I never knew when I would have to return them to the rightful owner. I literally couldn’t plan a thing that required a car because I never knew when it would be gone. I have doctor’s appointments to go to about 3-4 times a month and I like to drive to the store. I wouldn’t mind walking TO the store, it’s just that I have a hard time with the bags on the way home, especially if I buy milk. And, when I need milk AND bleach, hell, I put my shoulder’s into spasms before I get home. Also, don’t forget my plan. I can’t very well go out and find men without a car.Well, I suppose I could but I would hate to have an arrest for solicitation on my record. I have gone through life without going to jail and I am trying to get through the rest of it the same way. I sat in this house for months last winter and not ONE man came to my door. Well, there was the hobo from Thanksgiving, but he wasn’t my type, too short. Oh yeah, the guy who came to turn off the electricity the day after Vex left was cute, but he turned off my lights so I didn’t like him. Vex had all of the utilities turned off one day without telling me. Like I said, he used an old restraining order as a how-to list. Everything it said he couldn’t do, he did. Actually, it ended up helping me out. I would have had to pay the old bills to keep them on and they were all in his name. I had to put up deposits but they were less than the balance Vex owed because he had stopped paying bills a lot sooner than I had thought. So, he did me a favor by trying to screw me that time.
I still think you need to have a reasonable idea of how much the tax business is worth to Veck.
Well, I found out that something someone wrote in yesterday was true, a state court cannot erase my debt to the IRS. Vex can be held in contempt of state court, but that would only happen after I had my refund taken by the IRS and I don’t think they ever give money back once they take it so the fact that Vex agreed to pay the IRS does not impress me at all. I assumed that if the papers said he had to pay it, he did. What a joke. I can’t believe no one told me that. He agreed to be responsible for something that he can’t be held to. Well, I could get him for contempt of court, but that would do me no good, my refund would still be gone and the money still owed. So, as I said, I have a call into my attorney’s office. I’ll let you all know what is going on later.
Well, I have to get dressed, I have a lunch date with youngin’ #1. He called last night and said he wanted to speak to me so I am going to meet him for lunch. Youngin’ #2 is on much more solid ground as far as I am concerned, he is more mature, independent and ever so much better looking. Not that I am superficial, but it certainly can tip the scale. Also, I have a bunch of errands to run, I hate that it is so yuchy outside, it hasn’t rained yet but it looks like it most certainly will soon. And I am afraid because when it rains, that stupid main line clogs and I get a flood. What is the record for steam cleaning a carpet in one month? I think I am close to breaking it.
Have a great day and I will report back soon!!!
Meg
posted by Meg Kelso | 7:07 AM
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Meg,, sure link to me in a post or blgroll--suzannah
thanks!
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