You know what?
It just occurred to me, after discussing it with people involved and thinking about it for a few minutes....if Rick DID do something as nasty as cancel my insurance...he is miserable. Happy, satisfied people don't do things like that.
Happy dance....happy dance.
It just occurred to me, after discussing it with people involved and thinking about it for a few minutes....if Rick DID do something as nasty as cancel my insurance...he is miserable. Happy, satisfied people don't do things like that.
Happy dance....happy dance.
posted by Meg Kelso | 3:48 PM
3 Comments:
I agree. Were he happy, he wouldn't even worry about it. with most insurances, your premium doesn't change much whether a spouse is on it or not.
I don't know if this has crossed your mind or not, but considering the predicament he left you in, he could be required in the divorce to provide you with insurance (dental, eye, medical) as well as car insurance and alimony payments. From what I've read, you aren't bitter because of what he did, and you seem to be adjusting to life without him just fine. I just don't think you should deny yourself what's rightfully due, like a car, with insurance, health care, and some form of income..
I'm surprised that he could cancel anything. In Connecticut, once you retain a lawyer for purpose of divorce, you can't legally do anything like that: cancel insurance (medical, life, car, anything), empty out bank accounts, etc. - there's a list of things you can't do. I didn't do any of that, so I don't know what would happen if someone did after they were legally bound not to. I imagine that the other person could make a (pretty good) case to have them pay for the expenses and maybe even convince the judge to have them pay for the entire divorce.
At any rate, good luck. I think you're being way too friggin' easy on him. I'd be asking for medical insurance, car insurance, a new(er) car, and alimony.
- Akos
Hi AKOS!
LTNS. How are you doing? Yeah, like I said Friday or Staurday, I am rethinking this one. Entirely.
Meg
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