OK...
...you guys have got to help me. When I was married, my pubic hair wasn't ever much of an issue. Of course, there was the occasional hair that Rick hacked up after browsing around downtown. But other than that, I've never had a problem with it. The only shaving I did was the little bikini shave that we HAVE to do so that we don't hear, "Look! She has a furry bikini!"
A few years ago I mentioned pubic hair on this blog and I heard from people who were actually aghast that I had a full bush. They suggested that I shave it right away but I wasn't having much sex then so I didn't worry too much about it and I hate the road rash you get after shaving that tender spot, hence, I still have my pubic hair.
I've encountered a few men who trim their own hair, I guess it's for my sake. So, I think I can safely say that pubic hair is out and bald pussy's are in. There's one problem with that...I hate shaving my legs, why would I want to add to my shaving list at my age?
Had I never divorced, this problem would have never come up. But, divorced I am and hairy I remain.
This evening, out of nowhere, my own daughter told me that I should shave down there. She said, "Men don't like it!" Well, I've never heard that from a man. Not once has a dude gotten up, crammed his hard-on into his pants, zipped up and walked out of the room disgusted by my pubes.
I also worry that if I go to bed with a guy for the first time and I'm all shaved, he might think I'm promiscuous. Whether or not I am isn't the point, I don't want people to think it.
So, PLEASE...tell me what to do. I'll be taking a shower later and I need to know where to stop when I take out my razor.
Thanks!
...you guys have got to help me. When I was married, my pubic hair wasn't ever much of an issue. Of course, there was the occasional hair that Rick hacked up after browsing around downtown. But other than that, I've never had a problem with it. The only shaving I did was the little bikini shave that we HAVE to do so that we don't hear, "Look! She has a furry bikini!"
A few years ago I mentioned pubic hair on this blog and I heard from people who were actually aghast that I had a full bush. They suggested that I shave it right away but I wasn't having much sex then so I didn't worry too much about it and I hate the road rash you get after shaving that tender spot, hence, I still have my pubic hair.
I've encountered a few men who trim their own hair, I guess it's for my sake. So, I think I can safely say that pubic hair is out and bald pussy's are in. There's one problem with that...I hate shaving my legs, why would I want to add to my shaving list at my age?
Had I never divorced, this problem would have never come up. But, divorced I am and hairy I remain.
This evening, out of nowhere, my own daughter told me that I should shave down there. She said, "Men don't like it!" Well, I've never heard that from a man. Not once has a dude gotten up, crammed his hard-on into his pants, zipped up and walked out of the room disgusted by my pubes.
I also worry that if I go to bed with a guy for the first time and I'm all shaved, he might think I'm promiscuous. Whether or not I am isn't the point, I don't want people to think it.
So, PLEASE...tell me what to do. I'll be taking a shower later and I need to know where to stop when I take out my razor.
Thanks!
posted by Meg Kelso | 7:03 PM
17 Comments:
You will never please everyone, so do what is best for you. My preference, though, is for a full bush. I also prefer women, not 8-year olds.
My wife has gone from full bush, to full waxing, and back to something in between. I don't think there is a right or wrong answer, but the bare look is currently "fashionable" (if one's pubic hair can ever be classified as such!) A look at porn starts through the past decades is fascinating to see what men think is "attractive" or "sexy". The 70's, it was all full bushes. These days, no porn star has any hair.
As for men, I think there are many reasons some men at least do a little trimming, myself included. For one thing, trimmed pubes makes our package look all the more longer ;-)
Oh yeah! Italian dude mentioned that. He was quite the coiffed dude, one wonders how he had so much time for all of that penis primping. As I sad, he was Italian and one hairy SOB. But, his pubes/belly hair was trimmed in a square shaped pattern above his penis. Those Type B personalities can be rather particular.
Last night, in the tub I compromised. I trimmed it. Then later on last evening, I asked a guy which he prefers. Hands down bush over bald pussy. Like the boob implants, I'm starting to think that this is one of those thngs women do thinking men will like it.
Oh well.
:)
I'm guessing we aren't getting anything like we got back on December 18th ;-)
(A SQUARE over your dick? I've never heard of such a thing. Then again, its not loke guys talk about this kind of thing)
Yeah, the square thing certainly caught my eye. But I got over it quickly. I can get past a lot...but not kids with their pants falling down.
:)
Leave it. I never had a complaint (or a lack of enthusiasm). I don’t rub in chemicals to change the colour of my skin either. A lot of this stuff people do to themselves has come about from market pressure. Make us feel bad about ourselves so that we’ll spend more.
Ah, a woman who thinks like I do. I wouldn’t mind trimming it for a guy who asked nicely and made good use of the new style I’d be sporting. But SHAVE? HOT WAX? I don’t even pluck my eyebrows because they’re so light you can’t see them anyway. I tried that once…literally…once. One eyebrow hair that wasn’t bothering me until I pulled it out by the root. Never again.
Keep it. As long as it’s not the Forest Moon of Endor, hair down there can be sexy. Besides why do men want there women to look like 12 year olds, I don’t get it.
Sean
Pubic hair is sexy! Keep it!
McCann
I like you guys! In other words, I’m not a hairy freak! Yay me!
Goes without saying, pictures are best. I have to agree with Sean, the shaved look is creepy
McCann
My choice is clear...the pubes shall go on!
Oh, and no pictures this time McCann
:)
Well Meg, My man is a regular visitor down there and it does make it easier not getting loose hair in your mouth or between the teeth plus a tongue slides much nicer over a smooth skin. Those are my reasons. Mind you, I haven't had it done in a while. Tell you what I do in the shower, is to shave the lower part and leave the 'pubic' visible area unshaved. It makes for a nice surprise! Use a new blade and gently stretch the skin of the outer and inner lips while you shave, soap the area well before you do. Enjoy the result!
Razor? Stretch my lips? OMG I'm in way over my head now! But if it could be done safely, it sounds like an excellent idea. I just have a problem with the pube itch that goes along with a thousand little stubbies poking me in my "lips".
:):)
Ha ha, just surfing through old posts - but I gave up shaving of all sorts after M split & #2 has never complained.
Maybe he wouldn't dare, but I'm firmly in the "I'm a grown woman not a prepubescent girl" camp...
You and I both...I was so proud of the first 8 pubes that I ever had, I wouldn't think of trimming them. If the hair hacking thing is an issue, I have an idea...a small pubic rake to pull out the loosey poosey hairs. OK, another Meg original idea!
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